
For many parents, it can be daunting as their young person decides to take the plunge into the university world. It can feel like an overwhelming decision to choose a course and decide where to spent the next three years. As a parent, you'll want to guide them, but might feel adrift yourself. To help you, this article offers three pieces of advice to give you the confidence to offer them support.
It sounds straightforward as a starting
point, but it’s important that your young person doesn't
rush their course and university research. Being
determined to make the right choice
can sometimes mean they dive into the
specifics without looking to see what else is
out there.
A simple UCAS search will help your young
person find all the possible universities that
offer their chosen course. You never
know what variations they might discover. There are thousands of course
opportunities available. For example, did you know that students
can study a combined degree of Geography, Spanish, and Latin American Studies?
Create a mind map, table, spreadsheet
– whatever works best for your young
person to visualise all the different
options. Together, you can prioritise what
is most important to them. This will
help them to narrow down their choices.
Does
the course offer the modules they’re
interested in? Is the location exciting
to them? Does the university offer the
facilities they need?
Whatever their criteria, make
it clear which universities tick these
boxes, so you can start to see the
true contenders.
Our biggest recommendation is to visit
the universities if you can. It isn’t always
possible to do this: open days might
not fit into your calendars that easily. Also, some
universities are far away and costly to visit.
However, if you can, encourage
your young person to join you for a
visit. There’s something about stepping
onto a campus for the first time. It can’t
be explained, but they’ll soon gain a feeling if the university isn’t
the right fit for them... or whether it could be
their new home for the next three or four
years.
Ultimately, your young person is about to make an important decision about their future, but there is so much support out there for students and yourself as a parent or carer. The best thing you can do is encourage your young person every step of the way. You might even need to step aside, so they can make the choice that is right for them.
Just so you know, this blog was published on 18 Jan '24 and everything was accurate to the best of our knowledge when we hit publish.